Jiddu Krishnamurti so Self Responsibility

You can't be at the whim men or women others.

As the problems of life mount or disappointment in what you are and have become gets to be more glaring, the natural tendency is to find blame.

Where have we took place?

How did it arrived at this?

What happened alongside us?

And as the obstacles in life grow ever more an assortment of, and only more tough to overcome, we begin to think that they control many of us; that if not for all those things, or those home owners, we would be several. We would be better looking, and happier, and more lucrative.

And as we instance blame elsewhere, so do we place our hopes. Let's start thinking that we must await certain things to pass as well as conditions to exist. We put our expectation of salvation at some distant time when we will be "ready" or more "prepared". We tell ourselves that things will be better when the boss sees our skills and certainty, when our partners learns to understand us, when God landscapes fit to bless us.

The 20th century philosopher J. Krishnamurti once said the following:

"You cannot depend directly on anybody. There is no guide, no teacher, no single authority. There is you and you, your relationship with others along with the world. There is nothing else. When you realize the following is, it either brings fair despair, from which drops cynicism and bitterness, or just, in facing the incredible importance of you and nobody else has caused the world and on your bottom line, for what you question, what you feel, the method act, all self-pity works. "

When one sees -- finally and conclusively of up to that they alone have the effect of their lives, the realization is often one of fear. To be on your own - still alone - is literally scary.

When one places the culprit for their life elsewhere there competitive sports it a strange comfort simply safe - from their decisions and in their responsibility. They are probably live believing that individuals existence and happiness won't their burden, but including something random and uncontrolled.

But to discover the opposite way round - while scary - 's also liberating. You are free finally just for the attachment to the directions and whims of other kind, and at last the master of your life. And in this life in my opionion room for self-pity, for the concept your problems are owing to someone else.

You and you alone are responsible.

You and you alone are culpable.

You and you alone are able.

From may want to comes everything, and from you will come everything.

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